Best 50 – Advice about Love and Relationships

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Top 50 Pieces of Advice about Love and Relationships

  1. Don’t stay with someone who antagonizes you or belittles you.
  2. If you feel lonely within your relationship, it’s time to assess why you feel this way and communicate that with your partner.
  3. Know when to walk away.
  4. Learn to treat one another with love and respect in the face of a disagreement.
  5. Believe one’s actions over their words.
  6. Don’t ignore the red flags you see in the initial relationship. They don’t go away. They grow.
  7. Don’t settle for someone who has no regard for your feelings or wants you just because you’ve been together a long time.
  8. Just because you love each other does not mean that you’re good together long-term.
  9. No relationship is perfect and there will be conflict. What matters is the desire to solve the problem.
  10. Always fight the problem, not the other person. If you keep this in mind when arguing, you’ll be able to resolve the issue together rather than be mad at each other.
  11. Better than looking for a guy to treat like a queen, look for a guy who treats you like a respected partner.
  12. Don’t disparage your significant other behind their back.
  13. Confidence isn’t “I know he likes me”, confidence is “I’ll be okay whether he likes me or not.”
  14. Decide what is most important to you in a relationship and communicate that with your partner.
  15. You’re not required to set yourself on fire to keep other people warm.
  16. Marry someone because that’s what you really want, not because it is the next logical step in a relationship.
  17. The grass is not greener on the other side, it’s greener where you water it.
  18. Stop trying to find the right person and start BEing the right person.
  19. If you feel like you have to do all the work to hold onto a relationship, this is probably not be a relationship your partner values.
  20. See a person for who they are, not who you think they can be.
  21. When you try to be right, it makes the other person wrong. Being right doesn’t solve the issue.
  22. Always genuinely apologize after a fight.
  23. You can’t expect someone to love you when you can’t love yourself.
  24. Just because you liked the friend-version of someone doesn’t mean you’ll like the relationship-version of them.
  25. Relationships give you an opportunity to learn about yourself. Don’t miss the lessons along the way.
  26. Don’t be afraid to open up and be vulnerable. Vulnerability can bring you closer together and strengthen the two of you.
  27. When you and your significant other are arguing, remember—it’s you and them VS the problem. Not you VS them.
  28. Just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.
  29. Don’t fall in love with someone’s potential.
  30. It takes two happy individuals to make a happy relationship.
  31. If the world didn’t give each other second chances, we would all be single.
  32. Instead of searching for the “perfect person,” be the version of the person for whom you are looking.
  33. If you love the memories more than the relationship, it’s time to move on.
  34. Just because a person is right or perfect for you, you may not be the right one for them.
  35. If it’s broken, fix it. If you’ve lost count of how many times it’s broken, or the cost of repair far outweighs the initial outlay, move on.
  36. In addition to love, honesty, loyalty, trust, and communication are required for a healthy relationship.
  37. Always hold hands when talking about the hard stuff. It helps to keep the negative emotions in check & shows you care.
  38. Be the man or woman you would want your future or current child dating.
  39. Love is about appreciation, not possession.
  40. Don’t go to bed angry. It creates animosity and distance which can be harder to overcome.
  41. Keep your relationship fresh with new experiences.
  42. If he threatens to leave, let him.
  43. Keep no secrets, tell no lies.
  44. Sometimes you need let go. It may be challenging, but staying will only make it worse.
  45. Relationships aren’t hard. If it is hard, you are probably with the wrong person.
  46. People with change and grow. How you and your partner respond to that change determines the success of the relationship.
  47. If something feels wrong at the beginning, don’t expect that to go away.
  48. If you’re keeping score, you already lost.
  49. Love is an action, not a feeling. Being loving toward one another is key.
  50. Don’t let the fear of leaving or the unknown be the reason you stay in an unhealthy relationship.

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